The first makes sense, the second is only useful because sitting down to pee resets the glitchy arm after a sim had a mug of coffee AND it puts an end to the annoying xylophone-wee that little boys do...
But there was a problem: These two mods both change the same BHAV, so they can not be used simultaneously.
So I've combined both features into one mod: BO - Sanitary Sanity! Now ALL sims use the toilet sitting; they always flush, and neat enough sims (neatness 3 or more) wash their hands.
There are two versions of this mod: the normal version, and the No-Privacy (NP) version. The latter should stop most (but probably not exactly ALL) sims from shooing others out of the bathroom.
Filesize 1.04 KB | File Name BO - Sanitary Sanity - NP.zip | # of Downloads 366
EDIT: I think I have the one from MATY, but will have to double check(And it was only updated for NL).
This could be just a dumb spell of bad luck, but it could also be something that my mod inadvertently triggers, although I can not imagine how that could be happening. I'll check it out for you, Becca, because if there's even a slight chance that I caused this, then it needs fixed!