I have decided to change my TOU. As someone pointed out to me, since the new EA EULA I have no control over my stuff anyway once it goes into EA software.
All my meshes are share friendly and can be included with recolors.
You can modify my meshes, textures, walls, floors etc.. to assist with your own projects.
You can convert my stuff to Sims 2 or Sims 3.
The only things that I still ask is that:
You give me credit and were possible provide a url to original.
You don't claim my stuff as your own.
You don't upload my creations to a site to download directly.
I don't think that sounds unreasonable.