I decided to play the premade Newson family. Felt sorry for all those kids left without parents! Bit of beckground about them here http://sims.wikia.com/wiki/Newson_family, they had Lyndsay Louie move in http://sims.wikia.com/wiki/Lyndsay_Louie to help pay the bills and make it so the older children could stay in school, she then fell in love with Jack Stallkamp, who funny enough does not have any info on him anywhere! He also moved in and then they got married! Yay the Newson kids have a proper family again!